How do i deal with my wife infidelity and injuries?

Last night my wife called me at about mid night and told me that she had been injured and she was in hospital. Earlier i had called her twice and she never picked my call or call back. Getting to the hospital she told me she was in a nearby hotel and as she was going down the staircase she slipped, fell down and broke her hand. She told me a guy who was standing nearby drove her to the hospital in her car. While waiting for her to be attended I told the guy I could drop him back to go pick his car. On reaching the hotel, it happened to be these cheap hotels with rooms where you dont expect to find any decent person.Of course i suspected that she could have been in the room and she didnt offer any reason of what she was doing there though I didnt press her because she was in real pain.


We have two children who are below ten. My dilemma is should I just tell her straight away that it is over between us or should I take care of her while she is hospital as she had a surgery and tell her it is over after she is discharged?


Or should i carry further investigations?


Please help.How do i deal with my wife infidelity and injuries?
Dump her.How do i deal with my wife infidelity and injuries?
Marriage is about 2 words : loving and forgiving and they goes hand in hand. the rest are secondary. investigation will do you and this marriage and your children no good unless she is willing to talk about it. perhaps you might wish to consider that if you were in her shoes, what would you expect your wife to do at this point of time. best wishes.
First of all take care of the kids. Second let her know right away you know what she was doing at that hotel with the guy who drove her to the hospital. Third file for divorce.
maybe shes making extra spending money?
Dear Chris Karl,





No where you have mentioned about your own life i.e. Are you fully truthful to your wife ?





If you are, you have the right to enquire, otherwise the answer is obvious.





In case you had been truthful to her and she had broken the pious alliance, still treat her well while she is in the hospital.





Your approach will force her for confession and your children will find a mother and yourself a wife who will remain indebted to you throughout her life.





Regards,





Shashi Bhushan Sharma