Should married couples use condoms?

I can't believe how many married couples deal with infidelity.





And I 'm just curious to see what other people actually think about this subject.





Thanks for all your answers.Should married couples use condoms?
Did you really mean infideltiy or infertility? Cause some of these other answerers act like they can't read. Or maybe they just don't understand. Yes a lot of married couples deal with infidelity these days, and amazingly, a lot of them chose to put up with it, and therefore use condoms to prevent the spread of STD's. Some you can catch and not know about for many months or even years. Cheating, kissing another woman, sleeping with another woman, or acting like he is single around another woman......leading another woman on is unforgivable and a deal breaker at any point in the relationship........i want someone just for me.......I want someone who wants me just for them, and I'm willing to love only one man. I will not settle for anything less anymore, ever again. I want, what I want.Should married couples use condoms?
They should for the first few months if they were not


mutually exclusive. After the 90 day waiting period,


( I read that somewhere ) then it is safe to presume


that the parties are not HIV POSITIVE, having been


tested prior.


As for infidelity, then the offending partner should make


it their business to use a condom with his/her extra-


curricular activity. Latex.


It is really sad to hear that married couples have to deal


with these issues.
I'm not married, but I wish I was . . . any nice single ladies out there interested? :)





But to answer your question Ms. Jai, if I could throw my two cents in anyway,





Assuming the wife has the birth control side covered (i.e. she is on the pill, or has had her tubes tied, etc.) it really boils down to a matter of TRUST and Honesty. And if two people can't trust each other, then what kind of a relationship do they have? Not much of one, in my book. So, keep the condom on.





It seems to me that without trust, or in a case where the trust has been broken, the relationship may be over, and hopefully, the woman or the man will find out BEFORE they end up with a disease they might be stuck with for life.





Sadly, in today's world, it often seems both partners can never be too careful.





On the other hand, if both are fortunate to be a marriage with 100% no doubts about the trust and honesty of the other, it is the closest thing to heaven on earth, because there is NO FEAR!





This feeling of absolute confidence in each other, helps the wife to be in a relaxed state mentally, which maximizes her potential to reach her well deserved peak, not only in the sexual arena, but in every other aspect of the marriage as well.





(Note to men - make sure you satisfy your Queen FIRST, so that she can feel the joy of orgasmic bliss everytime, just like you do!)
You said the main concern here, ';infidelity';, so, why would you need to ask this question. If you have any idea that your better half is not being loyal, or true to ONLY you, then yes, you need to use protection for your health. It only takes ONE time to be in termoil years later by trying to give them the benefit of doubt.
I would definitely use a condom, but not because I don't trust him, I don't want children yet and its not safe to use the pill, or patch of an IUD.





Women who use the pill can have horrible reactions, brown skin spots and cancer.


A lot of people have recently died from the patch and IUD's are so painful.





Condoms are the best way.
If infedelity is a concern then it most certainly wouldn't hurt to use one.





If infedelity is not a concern you have variables such as does the couple want children, are religious beliefs involved, and some people use them to increase the man's staying power (stamina).





Hope this helps give a little insight.





James
for child prevention yes, but if your doing it because you fear infidelity then there are serious problems in your marriage.





you should be able to trust one another and be free with eachother. if you cant trust your partner then you need to deal with that issue and decide if you want to be having sex at all.





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Some couples chose to NOT use condoms because they are ready to bear children. But some on the other hand, chose to use them due to STD's and HIV/AIDS and the fact they aren't ready for children. I am not married yet. I am a graduated nurse. Of course I'm going to say to use protection.
MARRIED OR NOT...PEOPLE STILL USE CONDOMS. THEY USE THEM IF THEY DON'T WANT ANY KIDS. WHEN I FIRST GOT MARRIED I USED CONDOMS BECAUSE I DIDN'T WANT ANY KIDS..AND I DIDN'T LIKE TAKING BIRTH CONTROL FOR ALOT OF REASONS. WHEN I STOPPED USING CONDOMS I GOT PREGNANT..THEN I DECIDED TO NEVER USE A CONDOM AGAIN AND I AM PREGNANT AGAIN. PEOPLE HAVE THEIR OWN REASONS FOR USING CONDOMS. SO FOR SOME OF YOU SAYING YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY MARRIED COUPLES USE CONDOMS...YOU WILL UNDERSTAND WHY WHEN YOU HAVE A REASON WHY YOU HAVE USED A CONDOM WHILE YOU WERE MARRIED.
If neither has an STD (which you'd hope not if they are married) and they don't mind if they concieve then I don't see a need for a condom!


But if they are not ready for children the should either continue using them or find another form of birth control that suits them! =)
If you dont want children you should





You should also use them while there's any doubt whatsoever that your signifcant other is cheating on you. I guess in turn, you should always insist on using them if you're the one cheating on your significant other - protecting them
That depends, they don't want any kids yet. Then i would or she would have to go on birth control. Wearing a rubber, is like taking a shower with a raincoat on. There is nothing better than haveing sex and when you come to come inside her.
If both partners are sexually healthy and they don't deal with infidelity, condom is not necessary.





My hubby and I discarded it after marriage because now we know there is no one else we can look at whether for love or fun.
condoms really have nothing to do with relationships. it keeps the sperm from entering their partner. so yes they can.some people dont want to have kids but want to have intercourse so a condom is the answer to theyr needs





hope this helped :D
Sure if they want to. I use them. Not because of cheating but a thing of preference. I dislike having to get up and wash right after sex. The wet mess feels uncomfortable. With rubbers I don't have that problem.
My ex wife and I never used condoms. And I mean ever. She was always on the pill.





But when it's not a matter of disease, it's still a matter of not getting pregnant.
only if you dont want to get preg or do it like 5 times a day





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I don't think so... it's takes away too many of the sensations. Recently my husband and I tried a condom from the 'pleasure' line, and within 30 seconds we both wanted it off... it just didn't feel right.
NO, BUT IF THEY ARE USING THEM TO PREVENT PREGNANCY THERE IS OTHER OPTIONS. IF, THEY HAVE AN OPEN MARRIAGE THEY NEED TO CONSIDER DIVORCE.
There are a lot of reasons why condoms are a good birth control option for married couples, so I don't think it is strange that a couple would choose them.
use them to avoid pregnanacy and now condoms are used to stimulate sex exo like dotted etc so peole like and enjoy usung it.
Most married couples I know use condoms just as a birth control. I don't think many people think about using them because they feel their partners are unfaithful, but then again I may be wrong.
Sure, if they're cheating or if they don't want to get pregnant. But I still find it a bit strange for a married couple to use condoms.
That is just a personal preference with alot of depending factors. Is there a reason you should use them... ie birth control, disease??
Yes if they do not want children or if they think there spouse is unfaithful.
it depends on whether they want children or not- not all women want to use the pill and put chemicals into their bodies
of course you need condoms if you don't want kids.
if . there marrage is strong. no. if not yes . many a child has been born to people and sad but some arent there real dad,s
well in my opinion you shouldn't have to. it's pretty sad if you can even trust your husband/wife.
i never used a condom with my husband
if they don't want to have brats, yes they should.