To counsel or not?

How many of you have had an infidelity in your marriage and went to counseling and it worked. Would you suggest counseling even if the marriage is over just to be able to deal with each other for the kids? I'm just trying to see if this is something that can REALLY HELP...To counsel or not?
YES! It Can Help If You Both Make It Work. One Person Can Not Make Thing Work By Themselves. Ask Least Include GOD!!





This is just what I think.To counsel or not?
Counseling can help whether you stay together or not. If things just aren't working out, your counselor can help you both deal with ending things.
It can help! but you have to want it too. You have to want to understand, you have to want to improve your life this goes for your children too. They have input and feelings as well. It's not easy but it can totally help.
i/we went didn't work, her boyfriend knew and cared more than i supposedly did, that was until the day the divorce was final, then he dumped her...
Yes. It can. But, only if you are both willing to face everything ugly and good...It doesn't have to be just staying together for the kids because that isn't what works.....I mean, you can heal your relationship. You both have to do your homework, and the spouse who strayed must break up with the lover. You have to have each other in mind, not anyone else. It will work, but it will take time (think: at least 6 mos to a year). Anything worth fighting for is worth saving.
When an individual or a couple have been through some type of crises or tragedy they often times lose their focus and some time can make a wrong choice. A counselor becomes your logic and can often time help sort things out. Counseling can not hurt.
I never had to deal with infidelity so you may not care what I think. But I do know that marriage counseling worked for my aunt and she's a tough customer!! Give your marriage another shot!!
Counseling has been known to help couples put the marriage back together. I believe in trying everything available to help save the marriage before making a decision to divorce, especially when there is children involved. People could truly love each other and still find trouble in the marriage that can lead to cheating. With alot of work and determination the marriage can be saved. It all depends on how willing the couple is on saving their marriage.
It cant hurt....
Counseling is always a good idea, even if it still ends up not working out. It helps you express you dissatisfaction in a healthy and not as confrontational way with a mediator in case things do get heated. There will always be trust issues if someone was unfaithful.

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