Girlfriend on Spring break in Mexico...infidelity?

Ok so I have been seeing a girl for 9 months. It has been a long distance relationship for the most part--were both seniors in college. We are a great match and rarely fight.





Anyway my girlfriend went with a bunch of her close friends (two couples and a gf of hers) to a family resort in Mexico. She called me midway through the week and told me her plans to go to a club that night, etc. I told her to be careful and have fun (we party a lot as a couple). She kept in contact with me all night via text and I responded. At one point she texted me that she had made out with her best girlfriend on the dance floor...nothing too serious, but at that point i decided I would go to bed and hear the rest of the story tomorrow.





She texts me the next day about what a great time she had and then drops a bomb out of nowhere that she had showered with the one couple when she got back from the club (the girl she made out with was part of this couple. She said nothing happened, but she was wasted and didn't feel she had made good judgement. She also claimed that it was not sexual in any way.





I flipped out. I know all these people, and said that she had made it very awkward for everybody. I claimed that it was ridiculous on her part to claim that it was a nonsexual shower and also mentioned that she really hurt the chances of a successful long distance relationship. I also mentioned that I wouldn't be visiting her because I don't want to have to deal with seeing the other couple. She seems pretty devastated. I am not sure whether to believe this is the whole story or not, and am trying to decide where to go with this.





Just some other info. This girl (before this incident) was one of the most genuine and faithful girlfriends I have ever had. I honestly couldn't believe she even had this in her....she likes to party, but isn't exactly a huge freak. Anyway, should i believe her story and how to I go about feeling comfortable about the fact that this happened. Am I overreacting?Girlfriend on Spring break in Mexico...infidelity?
dude come on your contradicting yourself. you said this girl and you had been going out together for nine months and you said she was very genuine and faithful. nine months is a long time and if you have that image and idea of her then it is probably correct. if she says it was non-sexual then 98% she is telling the truth. call her and apologize you flipped out without reason and made her feel pretty bad because she had been faithful 100%. trust her.