Am i going to get any custody in court on tues for my two years old?

on friday i went down to court and tried to file an emergency custody order i finished all my paper work at 11 45 am they then contacted her and she went down to the courthouse and filed a restraining order so now i have to stay with my mom till tuesday they made me wait in court until 5pm and she got the restraining order at 2 45 pm but heres the deal she goes to a meth clinic every day and eats like 6-8 klonipins and xanex at a time practically every few hours and she has been seeing a gentlemen friend that she knows i know about she drinks and nods off all the time while the 2 and 8yr old are awake she also had her gentleman friend sleep over the other night while the kids were home everything in that apartment is mine i pay all the rent etc we are not married she wont return my engagement ring to me for breaking that promise i believe her infidelity entitles me to the ring back but my major concern is my daughter what can i do they laughed at me friday and wouldnt listen to a word i said. i need a lawyer i might have one but im not sure what is gunna happen i want to be in my daughters life i love that child more than anything in this world. o i also know that she was dismissed from her primary care physicians practice for dirty urines. i have proof via text message that she is seeing this guy in front of my face how do i get custody and her out of my life she wont go she thinks that i should live with her while she goes out and sees guys and i have to stay in and watch the kids everyday and pay for all the rent and bills what do i do please im stressing out cause in mass its tuff but she is not fit to take care of herself let alone the kids. will the court grant her everything even though i paid to file the order and will they leave me with out any rights to my daughter is this a losing battleAm i going to get any custody in court on tues for my two years old?
Darling, you do not own her.She is free to see other men as she pleases so don't even try to use that in court or else you will be laughed at (take this as a good thing, now you don't have to pay her spousal support!)





Now, if she does test dirty, that will be your winning ticket right there.Drug addicts don't deserve to care of children unless they are clean.They will place the kids with you.However, they will not sign away her rights.You have to face that she is there mother and she will never be out of your life.








As far as how everything will play out, you will just have to see what the courts say about it.they are the ones to determine it.I would also give her a 30 day notice to move out of the house.good luck and hope all goes well for you.Am i going to get any custody in court on tues for my two years old?
The first issue when you give someone and engagement ring you gave it to them and it is now their ring. It's nice when they give it back but they are under no obligation and you need to let that go.


Secondly, it does not matter if you have paid the bills and the rent so let that go too.


Thirdly, who cares if she had a guy sleep over that does not in any way impact custody or her right to keep her kids.


Fourthly, You have a text message not medical records and you have no right to her medical records so you have to let that go too.


Fifth point, the fact that she goes to a meth clinic every day just shows that she had a problem and has taken steps to get clean so that doesn't help your case either.


Finally, if she had enough proof to get a restraining order or order of protection that doesn't look good for you. Your best hope is getting them to believe you think the kids are not safe due to the fact she is using other medications without a prescription OR that she is not using them as prescribed and the kids are not safe. IF they can get a CPS investigation on those grounds and she has to have random drug screenings, if she is not clean she will fail and you may have a chance of getting your kid then. Who is the father of the 8 yr old?? If he gets involved for them same reason and fights for custody at the same time you may have a better shot. However, make sure she really deserves to lose her kid because kids need their moms especially when they are little so if this is more about your anger or hurt pride and she really isn't putting your kid in danger then check yourself and do the right thing.
Make anonymous tip off to social services about her not taking care of her children. The more reports they get they will look into it more.





There are pro-bono lawyers that each state can provide for you.





A relative of mine just got over a dirty divorce over a child. The best thing you can do is not to show anger at the other parent. Rather show your love for your child for their rest of their life. When the child comes over I don't express any kind of anger toward the other parent. I want to show my nephew or neice that they are loved and welcomed here. Kids pick up things, and that's not really what you want your child(ren) to feel about you or the other parent.
You shouldn't be treated like that...even if she thinks that you and her should be together just so she can see another guy is not right...you should kick her out... you pay all the bills and rent...you own the place...Hope I helped!


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