How to deal with a persistent guy after I played the tease?

One year ago when I was drunk I met this guy at a frat party (also drunk) who offered his bed because it wasn't safe for me to walk home, implying that he would not be in the bed but you know how it is... he asked to make out and I said no because I didn't want anything more and he said it would just be making out so I said ok. Then he didn't want to stop there but I kept pushing him away and left. He stalkerishly got my number from someone else and has texted me for a YEAR, despite me not responding and him going through three girlfriends in this time. I am a 19 year old virgin (by choice lol) and the fact he sees me as something on the side would be insulting except for the fact he so dumb it would be more upsetting if romantic sentiment were present- I would a bit generously place his I.Q. around 90- and while beyond the dimness there is a certain affable nature, his unrealized desire for infidelity and his objectification of me betray a moral bankruptcy that prevents him from having any degree of likability for me. His messages to me grew increasingly lewd until curiosity and a disappointing lack of maturity led me to start toying with him, promising we could do whatever he wanted and such, but after a long time of not me not following through it's not even funny anymore and he doesn't understand that his texting bothers me because I pretended it didn't- what is the most mature way to say ';I said we could have sex but you actually repulse me';?How to deal with a persistent guy after I played the tease?
wow...i wonder why in the first place would you even lead him on. this guy appears to be such a douche!!! i applaud your not giving into him, but that was stupid be a dick tease. especially because he has stalker qualities. now he has it in his head that you want him. i would watch out for your own safety. flat out tell him you dont like him and never will or that you are a lesbian.How to deal with a persistent guy after I played the tease?
Reap what you sew.


Tell him that you were experimenting with flirting (i think you were) and he really isn't your type.
Some people just cannot keep the sex in the bedroom , that repulses me !
change your cell number. get a wrestler boyfriend. jk but rly get a big guy to protect u lol good luck:)
Well, by your language you do not seem to be a dull crayon, if you know what I mean. But messing with someone's emotions like that probably wasn't the best idea. If he got your number he could get other information from people and if he desires you that much the word no may not be enough for him. What you need to do is tell him straightforward, with no dancing around the subject, that you are not interested in becoming his toy. And of he keeps displaying the kind of behavior that he has been, I would suggest getting a different phone and letting your friends know what's going on so that they can help you out.
Honesty? Tell him that you are not interested and want him to stop calling you. Why get more involved than that. Say no, and cut any contact.





And seriously? Why would you do this? It was never funny, just dumb. If a guy ain't to smart, has already done something you call ';stalkerish';, why would you ever want to egg that on? Trying to bring on a psychotic break in him or something?