Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How can i leave someone i love,who loves me back more than i do?

he loves me so much and i know it.but things gets crazy,i had my shortcomings,he has his insecurities.i thought im being neglected and so does he.communication is much needed but we never gave it a chance.He had sex with someone else,only to feel man enough because i never make love with him anymore,because of few girl things,like; i wanted him to say sorry for things he done,i wanted him to spend more time with me,etc, which makes our lives more and more complicated.he admitted his fault,asked for forgiveness and day by day he becomes a better man. even if i did gave him his own doze of medicine.yes,i had few flings and an affair with his knowledge.he even reads the messages i received.i even answer phone calls with him by my side.but he tried to accept these things because he knew, he had done a great deal of torment to me. not just the infidelity.even before that,i had big problems with him.but he is trying really hard enough to make up for it.but i dont want to love him anymore.How can i leave someone i love,who loves me back more than i do?
You can't just stop loving somebody, and if you leave him to stop loving him; its not going to work. It looks like you both hurt each other so much that you don't even trust each other anymore. ,Looks like both of you are putting some effort to try to make this relationship work, try going to couples counseling it will help you a lot.How can i leave someone i love,who loves me back more than i do?
You need to learn what the word love entails. What you are describing is a train wreck in progress.
This relationship sounds very bad. Getting reveng on each other, sleep with other people. Very immature. Move on!
My opinion on this is if each of you truly loved each other neither would have strayed from the relationship. Also, communication can make/break a relationship if you guys are going to try to further the relationship you should seek counseling, and learn how to communicate!!
Sometimes you can't help who you love and sometimes people can make soo many mistakes in a relationship and not realize how severe it was until it is too late. Up to you to give him another chance but if you do you need to put your all into it and maybe go to couples counseling.
If you don't want to love him then you need to leave him and stop playing games with him. He is making an effort to correct a wrong and make things work and you are doing nothing but playing on his emotions right now. Let him go.
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