Why am I going through this again?

OK, some of you have read my past questions and know that I am dealing with infidelity with my husband of five years. I have a question for the men out there and I need honesty without jabs... so here I was, married to a man who boasted about his honor and how he would never cheat... I was the ';perfect'; wife so to say, I work out five days a week, I work full time, I take good care of myself, I kept the house clean, I am a GREAT cook, I don't hold out in the bedroom, I am not timid or shy, men are attracted to me but I never act on it, and I am the life of the party. Recently I found out that my husband has been ';making out'; behind my back with my single friend who had kind of become the ';third wheel'; in our home on the weekends. She would come to dinner, we would drink some wine and they would smooch every time I got up to go to the restroom. They say nothing more happened and I know I know, you will all want to say it did. But I need to know, if a wife is truly so great, and does everything to be what the man wants, and the man STILL cheats... why? and what could I have done more to prevent it? Please, I need to know...Why am I going through this again?
she was just there in your home and made herself available to him boosting his ego. Its not about you it never was. there is never a sure way to prevent it, but not inviting other women into your home would help. your husband has no boundaries and neither does this woman.Why am I going through this again?
It isn't you, it's him. Insecurity racks at him and he's a player. Get yourself tested for STD. There's no way to prevent him from doing it. Marriage counseling is suggested. I'd kick the third wheel out of the house.. Only you can decide if you're better off with or without him. Good luck.
If you are as good as you say you are, then perhaps it is just in his nature.





Why are you going through it again? Because you are allowing yourself to go through it again.





Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.
There is nothing you could have done to prevent it. Some men just cheat, like yours. This is his problem, do not think that you brought it on.
Honey, sounds like you have a big ego. He's probably tired of your ';better than thou'; attitude. Just because you think all the things you listed about yourself are positive, he may not agree.
there is nothing you could do to prevent this...men are pigs.





they will look you right in the eye and sya your the only one...but meanwhile pork anyone who shows interest....
you only have control over you