Question mainly to men?

does it trouble you at all that when you see questions of infidelity dealing with a man or woman if they should tell their significant other that alot (not all) of the women say don't cause him needless grief, don't tell him ever, keep it buried forever. (i say him because i haven't encountered a question yet where a female asks if she should tell her husband).





how do you as a man feel about that and would you want to know?Question mainly to men?
i can deal with what i know. its the things i dont know for sure that are hard. id want to knowQuestion mainly to men?
It is my profound belief that when a man and woman marry, there should be some respect for each other even in bad times. A married person should have a ';D'; talk with their spouse before resorting to physical abuse, verbal abuse, or infidelity! I* remarried my ex-wife when she needed to have a serious heart surgery. We both agreed to tell the other if either found some one they could be happier. After she did (an Internet BF), and we divorced without a WW II. That is my opinion, and I am sticking to it!
I have never strayed, but I have a friend who did. I found out and got in his face basically saying that he needed to make things right. (I did not snitch if you are wondering. Any friend or acquaintance should not do that)





He decided NOT to tell and to end the affair. The ';other woman'; became angry (I think you know what happened next) She called the wife and things went down from there. They were divorced within 2 years.





I guess what it comes down to is this...Would you rather be told by your spouse or by the ';other person.'; Either way, it will not be pleasant.
I think this falls under the category of what you don't know won't hurt you. So if I were married and my wife was cheating, I wouldn't want to know, and vice versa. That said, you most likely will know, so it's a different situation.
the devil is in the details. if i knew anything, i would have to know it all and that would probably be the end of it for me, so no, i do not want anyone to tell me ever. if i am too dumb to figure it out myself, my bad.
How it feel,? Pain and the point of TRUST rocky bro, if that is a married partner yes i want to know WHY? He or She do this after all why marry........???????????

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