Ladies Only...How to get out of the dog house?

I recently accused my girlfriend of something very horrific and devastating...I think she's in the hardened heart phase and I think this may spell the end of my relationship with her...she's starting to withdrawn from the relationship and I'm afraid it may be over between us. What should I do to truly apologize because I don't want to lose her or should I just withdrawn as well from the relationship and let it die before I really have to deal with infidelity?Ladies Only...How to get out of the dog house?
you can try but depending how much damaged you cause I cant promise you it'll work. There's a long recovery road ahead of you. Start with a letter, tell her you are truely sorry %26amp; pour our your heart, yeah i know every guys cringes at this. Let her have her space to figure stuff out after you do this. could days later do something sweet not the usual flowers %26amp; candy, get her car detailed or bring her dinner from a place like boston market or soemthing you seriously need to go above the norm if what you accused her of is really that bad. We all do it, relationships are tough, we say things we dont really mean or feeling get thrown about not knowingly. Good Luck, hope everything turns out for the best.Ladies Only...How to get out of the dog house?
At least try to make it up, swallow your pride, surprise her with flowers, A sincere card with a sincere apology saying what she means to you, do something crazy, serenade her, anything romantic you can think of. If it doesnt work, then you at least tried. I take it you accused her of cheating on you right? If she cant forgive you then it may be best for you to move on. She might want you to feel really bad about this, so do what you can but dont beg.
well let her know that you are genuinely sorry.n that would be NOT repeating the same mistake again..show her that u actually care
If there isint trust i would just leave also.But if you can trust and not accuse anymore until you know ALL the facts then maybe try counseling
looks like you want to give this relationship a parting shot. I don't see much happening.. you could try. Most probably it wont work, if you have said something that really hurt. She will find it hard to forgive and forget and might come back to you for a while, till she finds Mr. Perfect. Be careful with the next girl.
whoa, is it that bad? well we love honesty even if it hurts us at least I do. the best way I suggest to handle this is to quietly pull her aside when no one is around and where she cant run away (inside her house, a park..etc.) then tell her how much you are sorry and how you are madly in love with her and that you just want to make it work. You dont have to kiss her butt just let her know that she is really special and worth the while and that you learned from your mistake! we really like it when men have strong actions instead of words. If she doesnt want to hear you out give it time, and if she still doesnt come around then let her go. Its ok I know you are both hurt a relationship isnt supposed to be onesided so let it go if that happens.