How to deal with infidelity?

My husband and I have been married for 8 years and for the first 3 years of our marriage, he cheated on me numerous times. He has been completely honest with me since he admitted cheating. I still can't seem to trust him fully. There is always the lingering thought in the back of my mind and I HATE IT. Any suggestions as to handle this?How to deal with infidelity?
I prayed a lot for God to give me strength,and to take over my thoughts so that we could move forward.And we have,It was hard,but I kept praying.


Good Luck and God BlessHow to deal with infidelity?
try figuring out why he's straying... maybe counseling will be helpful?





if its happening numerous times, then either a. your not fixing the real problem in your marriage, such as lack of a need being fulfilled from you that he is getting from these women or b. he's just not into the marriage anymore.





the only solution, is acknowledging and fixing the problem to begin with. infidelity is only a symptom of an underlying problem in your relationship, he's getting a need fulfilled by someone else that your not giving him.
They had an Affair:





Get emotion-based marriage counseling (not communication nor God based).





Your spouse needs to confess everything to you.


You get to ask all the excoriating and detailed questions you can stand about what they did. Take a few days, even a few weeks to go over everything. Once you are satisfied, never bring it up again.





You get to check-up on your SO all the time, any time you want.


If they work together, your SO quits and gets a new job.


They must break all contact with their affair.





Together you must address what is lacking in your relationship that led them to stray. Whatever the reason(s) they ought to still be extremely remorseful. They should have come to you to address the problems instead of leaning on and then bringing another person into your lives.
Let it go or leave the marriage because you will send him into another woman's arms if you don't stop thinking about it and start trusting him. Someone can only live with guilt or shame for so long and then they give up trying.
probably should get a divorce





he needs to tell you everything that happened: hopefully got no one pregnant





he could still be cheating on you
I have found Divorce to be the best method of coping with infidelity....鈾モ櫏
It will always be there. Nothing you can do about it other than accept that it will always be there.
www.break-free-from-the-affair.com


Good information there, might find the answers you are looking for.


Good luck
u will never fully trust him again. the only way i knew to handle it was to get a divorce.
How you deal with that is kick his backside to the curb.