How do you deal with infidelity?

My wife told me last night she had an affair for 3 months with another man. She broke it off because she didn't want it to continue and she regrets it. She says she wants to try and mend our relationship. How do I move on from here?How do you deal with infidelity?
if you love her, you put it behind you and go on.How do you deal with infidelity?
That would be one of very few responses that I would consider working things out with my partner...We all make mistakes, nobody is perfect, and the only way I'd consider giving a second chance is if they admitted it being a mistake, and they truely regreted such behavior and wanted to make this marriage last...I would recommend marriage councelling to learn how to move on from here...they will know whats best, and they will be able to advise you how to deal with all the mixed emotions your experiencing right now...
You need to figure out whether or not you want the relationship to go on. That is the answer. If YOU want to mend it, mend it. Punish her the way you see fit, but the trust will NEVER be the same. At least it wouldn't be for me. If you don't want it to go on, end it. That is what I'd do. There was some reason she cheated, telling you what it was would have been the honest part.
You either accept it or you don't. If you love her %26amp; want to continue your lives together you put it behind you. If you think there is no way you can get over it....see a lawyer.
Honey, I've been married for 31 years. I just found out my husband has been cheating for 18 years. I wish he'd been more truthful with me.At least she told you before you two were married for 30 years. Have Faite, maybe it'll work out. Good Luck