Bride-to-be dilemma!! Any advice?

I need your guy's help.


I've been dating my Fiance for about 3 years. And we're going to get married very soon.


Now when I first stated dating him, he had a lot of female friends and he would flirt with all of them.


So I talked to him and I told him how I felt, %26amp; that he needed to respect me now, because I was his girlfriend.


He did change, and he didn't flirt with them as much; however, he still treats them very nicely and lets them do and say whatever they want to him. They know we're getting married, but since they're so use to talking and being with each other like before, they really don't realize what they're really doing. We've had many talks and I've told him many times that it hurts me that he lets the other women touch and talk to him the way they do... and he tries to stop but since he's so use to them, he flirts with them anyways.


Now you can say that I'm jelouse but it hurts me so much!


I don't want to have to deal with this when we get married, or have to deal with infidelity. He's never cheated on me... but it just hurts.


Any advise on what I should do??Bride-to-be dilemma!! Any advice?
I hate to tell you this, but my husband was very similar before we got married. Unfortunately, it did not change. I dealt with many years of infidelity. I'm currently going through a divorce. I seriously advise you to rethink this marriage. It's not too late to back out.Bride-to-be dilemma!! Any advice?
Girl your are going down a road to trouble,hurt,and definitely infidelity it will not change with marriage if you have been together 3 yrs and its still happening its not going to stop sounds to me like hes not ready for a commitment.





when my husband purpose to me and while we were dating he cut off all ties with his female ';friends';
Trust me on this one: Once you are married, he WILL cheat. You have been letting him get away with almost-cheating for so long, he will see no reason not to go ahead and really cheat as soon as some sleazy skank presents him with an opportunity. My advice to you is to call off or at least postpone this wedding, and in the meantime, thoroughly examine your relationship.
If he lets women flirt and paw him he will eventually allow them to lead him to bed when you are not around. This is just wrong. He needs to be secure enough that he is hot, that he doesn't need the ego boost from other women.
Either trust him til he cheats or get out now. Im very glad that my hubby does not have ';girls that say and do whatever they want with him';
from the get go you sound young so just make sure that this is really what you want to do and that youre not just marrying him so you can say he's all yours...okay with that aside..it doesn't sound like hes really ready to get married...i mean my fiance would never let a girl touch him or flirt with him inappropriately...and he might just be the type of guy that wants female attention...but the thing is your attention is all that should matter to him but he is still seeking out that outside validation...that to me says not mature enough to commit to someone and thats also very disrespectful towards your relationship.