What would you do?

I have decided to leave my partner of a few too many years. It has been a very hard road and I have tended to be at the brunt of it and have dealt with depression, infidelity, etc. Now after our last horrendous argument I don't want to be with him however he is so very clingy, so loving and I have nowhere to go without losing everything. I feel terrible because he is making a real effort and all I can think about is when I will be on my own. He has gotten wind of me leaving and became twice as clingy as usual. I had to lie to save myself and feel bad for it. I am scared that when I do get to go that he is going to hound me and not leave me alone. He will do his crying thing, come to my work, follow me everywhere and make me feel guilty for wanting to leave. I don't know how to leave (when I finally can) without having this put onto me. I just want to get on with my life.What would you do?
If you have made up your mind, and you KNOW this is what you want to do, the sooner, the better. Don't let his whining, and big old teary eyes stop you. You're a mature, sensible woman......and you know what you have to do. Do It! Good Luck!!What would you do?
1st things 1st make sure he doesnt do anything freaky lik a embarrased picture of u then tell him to stop making u feel guilty then move and etc...
There are at least a thousand cliche's for your situation. They all say the same thing: Go through the pain, hope to gain.





Pray about your circumstances, go with your gut. Keep your wits about you and good luck.
Your sanity and freedom is worth more than a few possession that you will lose. Those can be replaced. If you have decided to leave, pack you bags, take what you need and leave. Do not leave a forwarding address. Change any cell phone numbers you have. Stay with friends or family, find temporary housing/shelter. But if it isn't working, don't stay.
do not feel guilty if u are not happy anylonger. it will be hard but stickto your guns and be strong. u might have to get a restraining order if he bothers u at work. good luck!
de ja vu'. You sound exactly what I have been going through for the past 7 years of our 32 year marriage. I can absolutely sympathise and empathise with you but for the life of me cannot find the words to assist you in your dilemma.





All I say is that this would be the first time in my life that I know exactly what you are thinking and going through. Email me if you like and perhaps we can help each other in some way.
Move! Don't tell him anything! Get a new job, new place, different number(unlisted)! I've experienced that before.
If he loves you then he should set you free if that makes you happy. He's being selfish. Just go your own separate ways. A relationship doesn't work on one side only. It's a partnership. You have to tell him the best and honest way you can to tell him it's really over and nothing could stop you. Tell him to stop following you and doing silly things because it will just push you more away. However, be sure that your decisions are final, no regrets.
Is it AT ALL possible to move far away... like another state? Perhaps that would lessen the chance of him hounding you.
if you are 100% sure you are leaving and once you leave if he doesnt leave you alone get an A V O on him so he cant .........
leave, no run