Can Anybody Relate to my Infidelity Situation?

Ok, here's the deal. I'm newly married to my wife. I've been with her three years prior to our wedding. My high school years before her were boring and sexless. On the other hand, her sex life in high school was that of a normal average popular female. Some of her sex life dripped into our first year of being together. I can't blame her, our first year was a long distance relation ship while I was in Film School. But the fact that she has slept with two guys, and had another go down on her, a month after I left for school still hurts and messes with my very vivid imagination. Especially, since the people she was intimate with acted like they were my friends when I came home all the way up till now, three years later, and I know what happened. OK, here's where the comments are need: No matter how hurt or mad I am cause I keep seeing them doing the do in my mind, I couldn't get another girl if I tried. So I'd better just enjoy the Sex that I'm getting, Right????Can Anybody Relate to my Infidelity Situation?
Hi there,


I can somewhat relate to you in a sense that I was in your shoes when my boyfriend (now my husband) was doing the same thing like your wife did. I think, I forgave him since we're not really together (I was in another state). Yes, I was grossed out when I heard this and the thought of 2 on 1 is disgusting. We decided that not to associate with those kind of people, which helps me to cope. Out of sight, out of mind. The most important thing about this ordeal is having trust in this person again and make sure that it won't happen again. Yes, then your can feel more secure and comfortable being with this person again.


Best wishes,Can Anybody Relate to my Infidelity Situation?
A woman doesn't want a man with who thinks like that...';I can't get anybody else if I tried';. That may be the reason why she's cheating. You don't deserve to be cheated on, and there's always someone out there that can appreciate you for you. Sometimes you gotta be patient. But anybody can get somebody, if you are confident.
although you continue to see them doing the do in your mind please be a gentleman and do not do the childish thing and get back at her she made a mistake who does not i know i have in my life and my fiance has forgiven me. the best thing for you to do is talk to her bout why she did it and if it makes thing worse to talk bout it than you need to distance yourself from the people it was done with because that only brings back the memories of it.
and you married her why?


you need help


any guy who marries a girl like that has no sense of self


and fears he cannot get into a relationship


i figure you are young too


and you should not even have a Gf much less be married


thats why you settled


the truth is you have so much more time to get married


make a career


you area walking carpet mat


and she knows it


and will take advantage of you over time
Anything that happened before you said ';I do.'; is in the past.





She married you, not them.





Enjoy your wife and let the past stay where it belongs, in the past.
Yes, enjoy if you can, if not dump her.
WRONG! your sexfull you got an education and your properly be making good money If you cant for get over what your wife did then leave her you need to be happy and trust their are allot of single females looking for some to make them happy ...YOU NEED TO LOVE YOUR SELF BEFORE SOME CAN LOVE YOU !thous words came from a special lady in my life she help raise me right so its TRUE! You need to get some self confidences
drop the bomb baby cuz you aint gotta stay get out and get funky!