How to deal with baby-mama drama.?

My huspand has a child from his infidelity. The child is already 18 months. How should I deal with the situation, he visits the child every week. I personally know that the mother of the child is still in love with him. We have a son together and the child with this other women is a girl. One day at a party, he told his cousin that he loves his daughter more than our son. What should I do?How to deal with baby-mama drama.?
Please don't go on he said she said bull crap. Talk to your husband and tell him what you over heard. Make him accountable for the words that he said. Ask him if he wants to be with this other woman. Don't put yourself or your son in a situation that will be damaging to the both of you. Keep yourself mentally healthy. I can understand that this is a hard blow but, you will be okay just continue to be the best mother to your son. I wish you all of God's love with this difficult situation.How to deal with baby-mama drama.?
Go to him and let him know that.you overheard what he said and let him know that he has TWO children and he has to Love them the same.There is no favorites when it come to kids.
Ask him face to face how does he truly feel!!!!!!!!!
When there is children involved especially your own child there should not be any favortisim involved. Its time that you put him on the spot and tell him what you were told or heard and find out the truth!
if found it best to date peoplle with either no baggage or as little as possible
I would suggest professional help for you. You could use the support of this drama. It sounds like you are in the pain of his aftermath of infidelity. I am sorry you are going threw this. My heart goes out to you. And he is your husband!





Let him know that you heard what you heard and you are bothered by it. The fact that he said that would bother me even if they were both from the same mama. Let him know that you are still healing from this infidelity and if there is something he could do to help you threw it let him know that too. He loves you and should understand your pain.
I don't believe that your husband loves his daughter more than his son. I do believe that men have different relationships with daughters than their sons. It is natural for a man to cater to a female, so naturally your husband may seem ';nicer'; to his daughter and a little ';harder'; on his son. Women naturally cater to males so women are usually ';nicer'; and more tolerant of their sons than daughters! I do not suggest that you question your husband about his love of the children. This will only anger him and start a big fight. Maybe this other woman is still in love with your husband. Though it may anger you, so what? He chose to stay with you. You did except him back, so you need to trust him, unless you know for sure that something is up between those two. So, for now, I say just continue to be a loving supportive wife. Have you ever suggested that he bring the child over to your home for visits? Maybe this will ease your mind a bit. Your husband made a big mistake obviously, but he is home now, with you and his son, and at least he is taking responsibility for what he did. Give him a chance to make things right...remember, it may take some time.
That is truly heart breaking. You need to ask him about that face to face. I can't believe that any father would say such a thing. Also he needs to make his committment to you known. At the very least he needs to show you something to make you know he is true to you. If he cheated on you with this girl and she still loves him... ugh, its enough to make being a single mom a better option.
Remove yourself from the drama and save your sanity. This dude is already driving you nuts...
First you need to make sure this person is a reliable source, because I cant understand how a father can say he loves one of his children more than the other. He might have different feelings towards the baby girl because of her situation, or maybe he feels she needs him more, but probably he didn't know how to express it. You should ask him, I hope that's not the case.
oh that's awful...sounds like he's got his cake and eating it too...kick him to the curb and start collecting his hard earned money...
Well that is not okay for him to say. I deal with the same thing in a way. My boyfriend has a 5 year old daughter (had her when he was 17) and i have to deal with her mothers crap all the time. I know that he still love's her mother even though he would never admit it to me. Luckly we dont have any children yet, but when we do i always wonder if he will love his first child more then he will love his children with me. And if thats the case i'm not sure i could deal with that. He needs to love all the children the same.





As for him saying that he loves his daughter more then your son. I would ask him why he said that and you should tell him how you felt when he said that. He needs to know how you feel about the whole situation. Dont be suprised if he gets upset though (mine did when we talked about it) But in the end if you truely love him you just have to deal with it in a way, i'm haveing to deal with it...even though i dont want to!
A married man should take his wife with him to pick up a child and bring the child back to your home for visitation, first of all and really you need to tell him how you feel stop guessing and ask him what's on his mind
as my favorite advice columnist Dan Savage would say, DTMFA!


or ';Dump the MF'er already';
DUMP HIS STUPID ***!