I am constantly accused of infidelity. I am sick of this, we have been together 5 years but whatever I say or do i can't win. What is the best way to deal with this?How do i deal with an obsessively jealous man?
Unreasonable jealousy is often the result of low self-esteem and/or having low standards himself. He either needs professional psychological help, or you need to find someone else. Whatever you choose, you won't be able to get him to change.How do i deal with an obsessively jealous man?
Tell him that if he doesn't believe you are faithful to him, that he doesn't trust you and that a relationship is based on trust in a person.
Try to talk to him about it and if nothing comes out of it, then you should be apart.
Maybe he needs to realize what he has.
are you sure you still want to be with this person? i'm sure you have tried and failed to convince him that you're not cheating on him. but if he still insists, i think you should sit him down and talk to him. tell him that you're really not. and ask him what makes him think that you're cheating on him. show him that you're really concerned and hurt that he accuses you this much.
Well you could either talk to him about how you feel or break up with him.
i bet you that he is cheating on you and is just projecting it find out if he is and than dump him
as you have said he is obsessively jealous. my, is he sick? well, five years is no joke, which only means you have already dealt with him. so what's the problem? if his jealosy really pissed you off how come you were still together? you cannot win an argument because you let him win. and maybe at the end of the day, you realize he's really right. so you let things just the way they are for five long years. just be good. be faithful. dont mess around. that way his jealousy will cool down a bit.
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